Marisol, Well that's pretty tricky I mean, Its really your call. I mean a few things can happen. 1 they may not believe you or 2 they may not care. I mean I would love to expose to their partners. Are the OW 1 and 2 married?
I wish you could do a really good Plan A or maybe 2-3weeks and then a complete dark Plan B from SAA. I think you really do need some distance right now as it does seem he has some internal things going on, but it always makes the distance better if a Plan A is done first. Have you read SAA? Have you thought about registering on the SAA forum? I am here and there, so is hope.
I do think you have a better chance of being proactive than just kinda waiting it out. Even in Dr. Dobsons Love Must Be Tough, he said in all his experience only those who took a hard stand had any chance of reconciling and that most of the individuals that just appeased the affair lost their marriages in the end.
Consider SAA and keep 180'ing and GAL'ing! We'll have to salsa some day!
That is so awesome that you love salsa lessons I told you it was a hoot and a great GAL activity too.
Me-38 H-38 Married 18years Daughter-17 & Son-9 Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08 Moved in with OW 08/01/08
The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family. -- Lee Iacocca
