Seeing things for what they really are... #52

[redhottie]

K,

Let me comment on what I said about expectations. There is a big difference between thinking them and expressing them. So I guess it is ok to have expectations if you share them with H. Face it he is a DAM! He wants you to go back to taking care of him, but he doesn't want to help you with the kids, house, etc. You know I want you to be happy.

I remember how done you were months ago. I realized the other night when I was out dancing and having fun, that I would never have fun like this if I were back with H. H is a homebody, always was. I was the fun, lets go out and dance girl when we dated. I don't expect H to change, but I don't want to spend the rest of my weekends at home on the couch.

I think you are back to needed to decide what the h--- you want.