Originally Posted By: hopeful4her

And yes karen, I must be just as crazy to keep letting myself back into it. I WAS doing a good job, I thought.

I just don't understand all the conversation all of the sudden. And why does she want to call me back?

"I've fallen, but I CAN get up!"

I'll just reset and start over again.
Um, yeah. I didn't mean you were crazy, but getting into a 2hour conversation after you said you were dropping the rope is crazy. I mean do you want to be her bff or drop the rope and act like a husband whose wife is with an OM? Man, I realize I'm tough tonight! And I'm sorry for that a little.

And I think she does that b/c she is cake-eating getting her emotional needs from you as well as OM, and maybe it makes her feel a little less guilty too? I don't think you should let her do this cake-eating but I guess if you have 100% given up and just want to be her best friend then keep it up... Karen


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