Snodderly, I don't know if your still here today, or if you've kept up on my crazy sitch, but if you are/have, could you please share your wisdow with me?
Where do you think my H is in this MLC stuff? I know that we are supposed to put too much into the stages and I don't, I know that each person is different, boy do I know that, and I know that each sitch is individual as well but I would like to hear your opinion.
3 weeks ago I would have swore that my H was coming out (very slowly) of MLC. Today I think that he may be in the 2 stage of acceptence and going back through the earlier stages. I guess to be honest that is what I hope. Many have said they think he is still in replay and I trully don't believe that. Too much has changed for him, but I have to agree that much is still the same. So I'm confused. I've seen this man in replay no doubt, I've seen him very depressed and withdrawn from everyone, I've see him reconnect with family, pets and his children, even me somewhat, I've seen him lose the "look", the anger. Could it be he is just spinning through all the stages over and over again?
What do you think wise woman?
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
