Just because a person wrongs us does not mean we should be that way toward them.
I agree 100%. I believe that it is between the person and God. Not for me or anyone else to punish. BUT, it is very hard not to hold the person accountable for hurting us so deeply.
I give my H more unconditional love and forgiveness than he will ever begin to deserve. Just wish he could give a fraction in return.
Trying, trying, trying... Thanks MWG
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!