Hi Cat, Thank you so much for the thread advice. I didn't know how the forum works so I will try to move everything over to the same thread. It actually makes sense and now I know why some threads have tons of postings.
Yeah, I actually don't think H is thinking about coming back home. I now think that he's using a lot of that stuff to guilt ME and to make it seem like I'm the bad guy here. I know I did not handle things textbook perfect but as I said to H, "what is the proper way for a woman to deal with her H running around town with another woman." Especially my H who was totally blatant. He would say that he doesn't have o hide anymore since everyone knows he has a son. Funny right?
But I think I will definitely have to hold off on making any promises since he really doesn't want to be back with me out of love. I think he just doesn't like his living situation.
