Hey Lisa, I have no idea whats going on with you, but my heart goes out to you. It made me sad to read your post, I hope you are doing a little better now??
Its very odd.. he obviously cares deeply for you, loves you even I am sure. But.. for some reason, he chooses to stay with the aub. I feel that my ex loves me too and cares deeply about me (he has told me so since we split)...but that doesnt equate to being in love, or feeling motivated, or brave enough to want to try again I suppose. From what some poeple have posted to me, there doesnt seem to be much movement toward reconciliation, whilst ow is on the scene.
He was perhaps being respectful by NOT calling and letting you decide if you wanted to speak to him, or more likely, maybe he didnt feel as though he had the right to phone you, considering the situation??
Its positive he said he would help sort out your storage unit.. I like your plan to contact him Christmas Day. I'm sorry you have been in a bad space, sending you hugs and love Al xxxxx
