X picked up the girls last night for the entire week. Before he came over he told D11 to tell me to not 'hide from him'. Why? What does it matter. Im always better off not seeing him @ all. No longer do I need to meet him @ the door or step outside nor does he need to come to the door. I make sure to avoid him when he comes especially since nothing seems to stop his sexual advances.
Earlier in the day I had emailed him requesting him to send me a list of what all his family (including his sister) had gotten the girls for gifts to make sure I dont get them the same. His response:
My family is my sister...in other words his way of reinerating OW is not his family...Hmmmm does she know this? For when they all pray for their nightly dinner according D11 OW says "thanks God for OUR family"....huh....
No response as for the list, so I figured he would tell me that nite.
As usual I did not go outside nor show my face when he arrived. Kissed my girls goodbye and shut the door behind them. Knock, knock..guess who's there?? I thought maybe one of the girls forgot something, nope it was X. He went on to tell me about the list & complimented on my looks. I was dressed to go out. "Now you can get laid" "Uh..nope dont need that in order to do so" In other words he was taking the kids and so on.... "OH, I know yr already getting some...." "When will it be my turn" As he leaned in closer to my face & I was not upon eyesight of the girls who were wating in his car. He attemted to kiss me & kissed my neck.
He gave me a tight hug so much that I could barely breath, as I gasped for air...for I couldnt hug back the same. He wished me a good Xmas.
Ahhhhhh...quiteness all through the house. As much as I will miss them, I sure needed this break. I can have an entire phone convo w/out any interruptions, w/out having to lock myself in teh bathroom. I can see a movie from beginning to end & know what when on. I can make it to work on time & wont have to battle w/ the two tiny ones to get out of bed and then 20 minutes later to see them sitting on the floor staring out to space not even dressed @ all. Yeah, exhausting before I make it in to work. It takes two hours in the mornings.
