But you don't always have to get into the really hard stuff. I know I come here and am saddened by all the new names. I tend to branch out slowly and stay with the people I know. I do what I can. Once the bankruptcy is filed it will be a huge weight off of me but for now I am fighting it within myself and probably can't give the best advice. I stay with the people I know.
We don't always talk about our R problems, sometimes it is just to blow off steam from the stress of the day, or to chat with friends. This forum can be what you make it. Don't stay away just because of memories of why you started posting. You can find peace here too.
Hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory