She remains a mess that she wants you to clean up. Has she never done anything on her own before? She wants you to fight with her so she can feel good. Maybe it is time for you to just say " Damn it C, I am done with the games. Get out out of your lease, stop all contact with OM and get your rear home." If she can't do that then you will file.
Sorry, you will be stuck in this forever. I get the feeling that she never had anyone that disciplined her as a child and now everyone is paying for it!!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
