SD..it was a beautiful letter, well written, powerful...but it is still begging and pursuit.

Results?

An angry wife who reported you to your boss.

Can't you see that this is the only possible outcome?

What can her family do?

Do they control her?

Do you?

You need to stop this..you keep shooting yourself in the foot and can't see it.

The sentiments you expressed in your letter...are deep..and personal...and your conviction to stand for your M should stay where it should..in your heart and your one on one exposure to G-d.

Stop forcing yourself on her...and her family..it is pressure and pursuit and usually fails miserably.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;