Sorry FG that you are going through this. My sitch isn't much better these days. I am at the end of my rope with my h too.

I have no advice. I am sad too and just can't imagine what keeps my h away at Christmas time from his kids.

Have a Merry Christmas!

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"