So I get home last night and D and I got cards in the mail from MIL (not his step mom that we rent from, but his actual mom). She put a $50 check in each card, and also wrote on mine that she misses me and D and hopes we can get together after the new year. This is the lady that told me in Jan 07 that H is her son and no matter what he does, or how wrong it is, she will stand by him. Anyway, we ran some errands and came home and called her. She talked to D first and then me. She asked me how H is, if he’s paying child support. I was honest with her and told her he’s very up and down. I said a few months ago he wanted to go to MC and now he’s back to being very angry. She asked if he calls and I told her no, not really and he doesn’t really answer my calls. Then she said “well, he should be able to talk to you on his cell without worrying about her interfering.” I said “who, ow?” and she said yes. I then asked if she met her and she said she did. She said ow and H drove out to her house a couple months ago. She said they seem nice to each other but thinks he jumped into something too soon. Um, ya think?!?! He’s still married! I didn’t cry at all but it was hard. I cried like crazy after the call though. I text H and told him we needed to talk immediately since I just got off the phone with his mom. He called and was FUMED and STILL denied it. He’s even denying it today still. I asked him what he wants….if he wants this marriage or a divorce. He said he wants us to get along, talk nicely and see. That didn’t tell me what he wants though. That could mean he wants to rebuild with me, or he wants a civil divorce. I’m sooooooo completely sad and sooooooooooo tired of being hurt!!!!
Any advice?
PS, this may look familiar to someone here since I emailed it to you earlier.
