(((((((Kalni))))))) I am sorry you are feeling so discouraged. I think he wants to come back, but he does say some hurtful things. I haven't done as well at work as I could have for the past several years. And I think a lot of it is due to my troubles at home. But, I am sure that W would not accept any responsibility for that, either. I'm sure she would have the same point of view as your H, and your boss.
Anyway, always remember that the decision to "give up" is yours, and only yours, to make. Because of the nature of this site, and who we all are, you know that we will encourage you not to. On the other hand, you also know that we will support you if that is what you decide that you have to do.
As far as a gift..... what about something to do with his favorite football team? A set of glasses with their logo, or something like that? It's kind of personal, but not pressuring, either.
