Thank you, Phoenixdeux.

I now understand what you are saying. I see it in real terms. I get it. And yes, sometimes I can't see the forest for the trees.

Thank you for reminding me that there is a huge difference between remaining open to the possibility of reconciliation and the reality of putting MY life in park to everyone's detriment, particularly my own.

Tom


Letting Go Tom; JUST DO IT!
previously hopeful_husband

my A: Fall 05
W found out: Feb 06; separated immediately
W pursued D, final 7/11/07

me: 43
XW: 34
D8
S3
joint legal/physical custody