We all need a boost this time of year so thought I would put this up for inspiration, what techniques work:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=666657&Board=69&page=0

Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'