Hi Dave & SD,

I do check in almost daily here to read the around 20 posters I've been following, just haven't done much posting of my own.

With the exception of yesterday, where people around me seemed to be imploding right & left, it's been fairly quiet.

My H has been admittedly grumpy for the last week or so, says it has nothing to do with me though. "It's a lot of things,... work,
holidays, this."
Doing my best to ignore it. I did let him know I find the way he answers the phone lately to be abrupt & rather than "what's up", I would prefer just a hello.

The holidays are still going to be spent separately, I have no interest in repeating last year's pretend gathering with OW waiting for him to 'finish' up here & leave.

Still really positive & notice that when I do regress, I recover quickly & move on. Definitely have this site to thank for that.

Wishing you all a Happy Holiday & Merry Christmas.

Sunny


M-7 yrs
together-8 yrs
S-4yr
S-15yr

Bomb-4/25/07
Sep-same day
me-49
H-49

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