Faith - I was assertive and expressed my anger with W for sleeping with BF when D3 is with her. W realized her mistakes and put a stop to it - so she says.
As far as letting go... oops - to late. I have been wanting to do this for the past 11 months. It has been eating at me that her family does not know my viewpoint on this divorce.
MY W will be so livid with me that I contacted her family - But I finally felt I has to let them know that I do not think this is right.
I'll post my e-mail to her family in a new reply.
Me:40 / W:33 / D:3 T:7.5/M:4 D Day: 1/24/08 Legal Separated: 6/12/08 BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08 Suspect BF pre-dates D Day