Letting the prodigal go, living MY life...

[mishka422]

BBJ - Please, please, please.....let it go. Dan is playing on your nurturing nature. He knows you will comfort him because you always do. DON'T!!! Trust me on this, I've been there. My XH was talking suicidal nonsense and I stepped in to try to "save" him because he is my son's father. I did it by contacting his sister and telling her what he was saying to me. Things spiraled out of control after that and nothing good came of it. Don't give him any help. Unless you see him with a gun to his head or a fistful of pills with a glass of jack to down them, DO NOTHING.

Take care of the kids and pray for Dan. He has to hit the bottom all on his own. You can't cushion the fall for him.

((((((((((BBJ)))))))))))