BBJ,

He needs to be lefted alone to wallow in his freakish misery.

I'm serious. You can NOT save him. He needs to do this on his own.

Right now it doesn't matter that he is the father of your children. It doesn't matter that he is your husband.

If you try to save him he will take you down with him and that does matter. You are the mother of your children. They matter first right now. You need to be stable and healthy to look after them.

Cut the rope... Now