H sent me a text a few minutes ago. How he hated life so much this morning (going to work) that if it weren't for the kids he doesn't know if he would be here.
I replied that I found that to be very sad when he has people who love him so much and want him in their lives, that it must suck to feel that way.
H replied that he has given up hope on ever being happy.
OK so how do you step back from the drowning man and just watch them drown when they are the father of your children?????
He is sinking fast here and I am not equipped to handle this...
First off..gather up the kids and go play with the cousins..
stop throwing him a rope..
let him flounder..
when he bottoms out he may just find he needs to see a professional..
until then..he will do what he does because he knows you'll come runnin..until you stop runnin to him he will remain the same..
