W's out and has openly announced OM to all

[Tawnya]

{{Tom}} Ugh..yes the secrets thing is really a toughie isn't it?? I don't want my kids to ever feel like they have to do that and I hope hub never puts them in that position.

I have had to think really hard about how it feels to be "separated" this past week while hub has been gone, cause he was calling the kids during the weekend, while I was gone, to check in on them. I wanted REALLY to ask them how did dad sound, what did he say, etc..you know..but I just asked them if he called and if anything exciting was going on..and made sure on Sat since I came home early for son to check and see if dad had called (or he would have forgotten to check LOL) and so he called him back..

But I could totally see how easily it would be to play the kids and get info from them..so it really made me think about watching myself!

Tawnya