I know, sweets...it is hard to walk the walk...but I ask you to look into yourself and ask yourself what it is that you really want.

What type of marriage do YOU want? And start imagining that you HAVE it...and miraculous things will occur...I know it is hard...I am trying to apply this in my life and it is hard. Really hard.

But we are too wonderful to let experience make us bitter...I saw that in my exMIL...it is NOT pretty...the woman is still bitter and my my exFIL has been dead 3 years and they were divorced 16 years prior to that...sad, sad, sad.

Don't let that happen to you, sweets. Keep praying for God to help your marriage and to heal both you and your H so that you can move forward...keep praying that day after day and soon you will see a change.

Miracles CAN happen, sweets.

Love you and have a Merry Christmas!
Valentine


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller