Parents mean well, but they often do more harm than good. Don't be too mad her (if you even are), remember it came from a very good place. My parents have also my pain on as their own. I'm very close to them (it looks like you're close to your family as well), and I know they love me very much, but they too have made some mistakes in all of this. I just think no one really knows how to react to these things. Take care, and I hope you make yourself have a good day today.
