Thanks for all the great advice. 25 yrs you are right in a lot of different ways. I have a lot to think about for my future. I just don't see my h in the picture anymore. You are right he has let me down, in more ways than one. Yes I had expectations for him, since he has been making progress towards home.

Christmas will go on without my h. My sis and I will have a good time. I have NO doubt about that. It's just that I hate to see our kids diappointed by my h's decisions. In so many ways my h has been such a disappointment.

I guess that would sum it all up. I am disappointed.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"