Bbj, I went to bed early yesterday and missed what happened. I am sorry to say Dan is a selfish jerk. A week ago he was all "things dont work bla bla bla" and now, AFTER he realised he would lose his comfort he decides he wants to work on the marriage ? Did he ask you if you still want to?
What would you advise me or your sister if we told you this story? My gut feeling is to tell him "no,I am sorry too late, we go our separate ways and if in the future I see you have become a man then MAYBE I will reconsider" ... BUT, I know it's easier said than done. So, although I fear that you are signing up for a repetition of this crap, stay strong and do your best to protect your heart... love always K
