Donna - You are amazinly enlightened and handling all of this so well. I'm really impressed.

As far as Grandma's house for Christmas.....that may be too much too soon don't you think? Like you said, you want to have a happy holiday so why put yourself in that kind of a situation where you will feel that kind of tension? Can you and the kids go see her the day after Christmas or over the weekend? I would think that would be much more comfortable for everyone.

I understand not letting him off the hook, but why put yourself on one?

Now, get to bed sweetie!


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!