It's Complicated!

[glamgirl]

Thanks SC, great advice. My h had even said that the anger towards me is what prevents him from moving home.

Snodderly thanks for posting. Your post brought tears to my eyes. I did mention to h a few days ago that he is using this as an excuse. He just said well then it's an excuse. You are right, it's easier for him to hang onto this excuse that it is to piece his family back together.

You are so right, I have no control over whether he forgives me and chooses to face his family and mine again.