Cinders, I sensed this. I used to be the same way.

When you stop catering, you will change in his eyes. You will get some respect. That is what happened for me.

If H needs a needy mess of a kid to make himself feel good, well, good luck with that! I have more to offer.

And C, I can tell that you do, too!


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D