Hey guys!

Sorry, I've been gone. How are you all doing and dealing with Christmas? Update me y'all!

Not much new here, Plan B darkness of SAA 5 weeks strong. I have made no breaches in it. I dislike it, but feel really its necessary. Ya know there is a humbling that needs to happen in my H. I think the affair is only maybe 50-60 percent of it at this point. Now I think pride really will be what does our marriage in.

I do love the approach of SAA in that your not just waiting around for things to happen. Its much more proactive and comprehensive in approach as far as adultery is concerned. I do love DR tho in its approach of GAL'ing and 180 which I think is also very important while I am doing SAA.

Anyways whats new with everyone?


Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca