Is this a mid-life crisis?

[peacetoday]

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Its a hard thing to understand especially when our H get friendly
we tend to get expectations
MY H been gone for 1.5 years and almost 2 years since bomb
I have had many positive interactions with him he visits frequently to see our kids
he has had OW for atleast 1.5 years and he has flat out denied her till recently when I had evidence and confronted him
I too have spoke to H and admitted my part of failure to M
This takes a long time for them to sort it all out
It seems best for us to moniter them from a distance as we move ahead with our lives
I thought my situation would be different only to realize its not
friends is as far as we got and we are still friends..that works best for kids..but as for reconciliation I dont see it at all
H may think and wonder if he made a mistake but not sure if he would ever admit it
good luck
peace