Jeff, I'm sitting here saying "yes". Allow her to lead and you are to follow. Encourage her, but do not pressure. Keep the conversations light and fun, just as you did when you were dating. It's the dating and getting acquainted all over again theme. You are doing fantastic! No expectations and you'll be just fine.
Miracles do happen around this time of the year......wishing you a very Merry Christmas and may she begin to wake up from her deep sleep and realize that her prince charming is right there in front of her eyes.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
