Thank you Sandi - I know I need to post more... I was very active on another site - but most there were burned bad and often give a 2x4 in the face for tough love advice. I like this site more as it is comforting with a touch of hope... my hope is nearly disappeared... but the GALing helps me move forward with my own life. I would like to understand WAW better - but I have learned a lot about my WAW - the greener pastures, the taking me for everything she could, etc. She has moved on with her life and has a BF (likely has the affair before the legal separation or the reason for it). I just do not know if after she gets burned enough be the jerks out there, she'll someday realize that while I wasn't everything - I was honerable and respectible. (Well - some of that has been defeated in my attempts to show her how much she has lowered her moral standards and will be hurting our daughter in the long run). I would like to get to know more people here. I have to post more - but I have to do it afterhours when I do not have my daughter... I was adddicted on the other site and was getting close to losing my job.
Me:40 / W:33 / D:3 T:7.5/M:4 D Day: 1/24/08 Legal Separated: 6/12/08 BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08 Suspect BF pre-dates D Day
