It's Complicated!

[glamgirl]

25 yrs that is a good point, but it does concern me because if he hangs onto the past of 3 years ago it doesn't allow us to move forward with reconciliation.

When he is reminded of the past, he goes to blame/anger mode and then starts all over again. If he could move beyond this stage only then can he heal.

I try my best not to bring up the past unless it's happy memories. Now a few times I have tripped up, but really try to keep that in the past. Thanks.