Thanks Snodderly: Your right I should be getting a statement from insurance company...if he is telling the truth. I know that it is wrong to doubt...but my H has turned into quite the liar the past 3 years and the timing of all this....right before I was going to cut him off.
He did call me yesterday to thank me over the phone again. I asked if it was his stomach, as he always has issues with his stomach, and he said that it was something with his blood. He did not elaborate. He is having a procedure the first week of January and then will need to see a speacialist in Feb.
H asked last week if the gifts could be from both of us. I told him it was ok...and we will settle up after. Today he called me 3 times while he was out shopping for them. 3 unnecessary calls as we had already discussed what he was getting yesterday. Anyway, it is strange. As soon as I open the door a crack (letting him stay on insurance).....he calls me more in 3 days than he has in 3 months.
Do you really think he is still in depression? From what I have stumbled across the amount of money he has been spending in hotels this last 6 weeks with mow is astronomical. I know I shouldn't let it bother me.....but it does.
Snodderly, I have told H several times that if he divorces me that is it. He is off the insurance. I think that is why he is dragging his feet. I feel so used. Good for something....my insurance. It is such a rotten feeling. It makes me angry...which distracts me from detaching. Does that make sense?
Anyway, today was my last day of work til Jan 5 and I am thrilled. The kids are off tomorrow and are so cute...plotting a shopping trip to buy me something. I have to say H may have MOW....but I know I have the love and respect of both of my children. I wouldn't trade that for the world.
Merry Christmas Snodderly. God bless you and your family.
