thinking of you too. I'm sorry you are struggling.. good news is he is wanting to spending Christmas with you and kids... that is progress... Like you've told me.. keep it upbeat and positive... I love that his mom is coming in and might put some pressure on him. My MIL and H family has done nothing... my H is like them in crisis they all detach and talk about nothing.....
Also, one of my friends called our H's the guitly parenting... her parents did that to her .. her mom actually - when all she wanted was her love and time she bought her things and still does to this day....
I'm glad to know we are not alone.... very hard time for all of us..
thinking of you
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08