A, Do you get a statement from your insurance company whenever tests are done? The clue as to what is wrong w/him may be in the statements that come next month.
At some point, you are going to have to advise him that once you are divorced, you will not be allowed to carry him on your plan. He needs to know this as soon as possible. This is a consequence of his actions.
He's still deep in the depression. Changing hair colors just to try to make himself feel better. I'm sure that whatever is going on w/him is weighing heavily on him. He's hoping that you'll ask what is wrong w/him.
Yep, you hit it on the nail head....can't cut the apron strings.
I do hope that you and your family will have a pleasant Christmas. Enjoy the time you spend w/your family.
Merry Christmas! I do hope the new year will be a brighter and more promising one for you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.