Everybody's right. The guy is broken. You need to see a lawyer.
And I will add that it also seems feasible to me that he could be using the money issue as an excuse to come home and still keep his pride. And, while there may be a little glimmer hope there that he misses home, if you allow that to happen, I think you would be sorry, because unless/until he faces up to his issues (gets into IC), you will be doomed to repeat the circle of pain.
You deserve better!
(((((()))))))
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd
