We had a very surreal phone convo. where I told him that if we ever were to reconcile it would have to be for love and that nowhere in his texts did I see anything about how he loved me and wanted to spend his life with me.
His reply?
"I hadn't gotten to that part yet..."
I told him that if we were to even think about it, then I would want MC. He said, "No, never worked for us before, waste of money." I mentioned renewing our vows, "Nope, not something I think is necessary." I said, well, it is important to me so it should be important to you. He said, "Well, it is unneccessary to me so don't you have to take my feelings into consideration too?"
Grr
Anyway before i got off the phone I said, I used to have a Dan who wrote me letters, did romantic things, touched me, held me, LOVED me. I cannot and will not accept a life without those things.
he said, "Well since we only decided an hour ago to get back together I haven't had time to do those things. I am sure I will, in time."
WTF it is like invasion of the body snatchers. Everything he said was in an even tone, non-emotional, I don't get it...
My sis thinks maybe he is manic-depressive. Last night he was holding my hand saying he didn't want to get a divorce and today he is making businesslike demands and assuming I will go along with them. Nope.
And I told him that in the first text he said he was going to work to bury the past and leave it behind (since his resentment toward me is his biggest issue)...I said when you sent the later text about 'enjoy your day off from your job you chose and love', that is not leaving the resentment in the past.
He said, "I genuinely meant that"..........bullsh!t
I think he went off the deep end today. Turned my phone off so I don't have to read it/hear it.
