Points understood. Not clear where to find the motivation yet to "bend" a bit. You see, I feel like I am. A LOT. Clearly, if you cant see it, I probably dont.
I told him to cancel the trip. He said he would if I wanted him to. Then we talked again and he said something like "maybe during those 3 days, things would start moving a bit". I agreed. So, we are going on that trip on Dec 28th.
I also gave him Bill's last post to read. He said he will need some translation... Other than that Forrest, there are many things you say that I do "get" and will think about ho wto use them. I may even "listen to you" some... I've missed you K