The road ahead leads to happiness #6

[Lanzo]

Flow up stream indeed.

Yesterday ended badly, W and I had a big bust up, it's a long story but basically W was upset cos when I went to pick up my present from the store, using her car, I didn't come straight home, the details behind that are all blah, blah, blah. Anyway the argument went from her exaggerating about my time away from home, to her nit picking about things I hadn’t done, to a full blown row. To be honest I wasn't really arguing back I was just pointing out the inconsistencies in her line of attack, and her inaccurate details. It ended with her saying that "I had a [censored] answer for everything, and that I was full of [censored]". Charming.

Normally I am the one to smooth things over with a phone call but today I wasn't going to bother, but then W called me and asked if I'm ok, I replied no actually, I'm not and I told her she was out of order yesterday. W said she was angry with me, I replied it's ok to show anger and disappointment but there was no need for the language she used. W thought about it and said maybe she had gone over the top, and she apologised.

Anyway to cut this short and not to bore you with the details I initially thought W phoned to give an heartfelt apology, but actually she just wanted me back on board cos she's panicking cos she hasn't got all of her xmas shopping done and she needs my help to run around and pick up stuff. For instance she was just going to buy FIL vouchers for a department store, I told her not to be silly, men don't like vouchers they like tools and gadgets so I've gone out and picked up an inexpensive gadget for FIL. She need my help for other things as you can see earlier I even had to go out and pick up my own present.

So I'm still going with the flow and not creating waves.

Lanzo