Hi PM, trying to hang in there till we fly out tomorrow. H came over yesterday and took D out. We gave her christmas presents. H looked terrible. I thought at the beginning that when he started the A then the drinking got bad because of the guilt. Now I realize it was the drinking that led to the A. H right now has turned into an active alcoholic again after 15 years of sobriety. Also came to the realization that OW is an alcoholic also. So now it is not just the A but he will have to deal with the drinking also. I am trying to be in Plan A but I might have to go dark. On the other site I go to marriagebuilders everyone there said I should turn in my H and OW and get them fired. I know it is the right thing to do but I am also scared. H has put us in such a bad situation with dating his direct report, me working there and back to drinking. any thoughts
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
