Hi Clayton, Good to hear that things went well.

Is this normal for when couples seperate (to still get along great together.....or at least it seems that way to me)??

My H & I don't meet very often - but for the most part are meetings are friendly, fun & joking. Sometimes I think it depends on who's leading & what you want the outcome to be. For me & my H, the subjects that we talk about are not really revealing any or much personal info. That is a safe boundary for him. Is it normal ....? I'm the wrong person to answer that ... \:\)

Have you thought about thanking her for dropping the rope with you & letting you go?? Is that a strategy or statement that might plant a seed of doubt in her head??

My H is going to try & reinstate our D papers. But as of last night ... he still is not sure he wants to D me.

Happy Limboland - stay strong!!


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)