BBJ, there is one thing that Dan could be right about. You did help the M get to where it is. We all know that from experience a little too late. On the rest he is wrong.

You have changed, maybe not into what he wants but you have changed. In the last year a can't believe who strong you have grown. Maybe he doesn't like that you are becoming an independent woman.

He hates his job, so does my H. Not our fault, their problem not ours.

How about packing up his things for a Christmas present to you and him. Get him out of there BBJ.

Do you have school today? I'm sorry if so, my vacation started at the end of the day Friday. Two full weeks off!

R 23 years
M 20 years
Bomb June 2007
S Oct 2007
Ds 11 & 16
Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008