BJ - I haven't ever posted to you. In fact I've been a little bit of MIA here on the boards the last couple of months.
After reading your thread this morning, I had to post.
You are giving this man way too much power over you!
Too bad if he's not getting what he wants right now. That is not your problem by any means, not matter how much he wants to try and make it your problem. He has said he doesn't want to be with you. He has moved out. He can try and blame these new circumstances all he wants on you. That doesn't mean its true. That doesn't give him the right to be disrespectful to you yet again. It's like a 3 yr old who is not getting his way. He figures the louder he gets the sooner he will get his way. Too bad if he has to rent a place until the D is final. Then that is what he has to do. That is what most people have to do. Unless you want to go in on this property with him and have it divided up as a marital asset. That is your choice to make, not his. You seem to be the one that is financially saavy in this relationship, if you think it will work to your benefit, then go in on it with him. If not, do not even discuss it with him. Woog is right, you need to talk to a lawyer and the sooner the better.
