Signs to say WAW woke up?

[dday101798]

Well, so much for the "peace in communication".

When I got home there was a note from the sitter that S11 allegidly 'touched' her daughter inappropriately. When I I tried to talk to him about this, he buried himself in his 'shell' and ignored the issue awaiting STBX to come and wisk him away for the weekend.

Well, once again she goes through my house-mate to tell the kids she'll be there to get them in 5 minutes. So, I call her and start off by sayin ghtat once again, I am not pleased of her going through him and not me about the kids. Right off the bat she has a complete attitude, why, 'cause she's in the car out front with OM. So, when I ask her to stop trying to put on a show for him, she gets further testy and does not allow me to get a word in edgewise about problem with s11 for the day.

So, I hang up, and go out to the car and give her the note. Immediately she calls it b/s and where would he learn to do such a thing. Sinacism got the better of me and I leaned in the window to OM and said "I wonder where he'd learn that from" since seeing them the way the were in a public park full of kids, I can only imagine what goes on indoors.

Naturally that pissed her off pretty good. so, I apologized on Saturday in a text and asked what the kids wanat for xmas as I had to shop this weekend or else. She finally gave me a list, sanely.

Apparently she did in fact go to her family's xmas dinner, with OM.

Anyway, got my shopping done last night, very exensive, and got in the festive mood and put the tree up that I intended not to and wrapped the presents for them up.

She (OM actually) dropped the boys off at 6:15 this morning. They were acting very strangely and queit. S11 didn't even say hi when he came in. This left me no choice but to ask her what happened, and what did she tell her family. Of course, it's all 'my fault' and was not put in very nice format either to say the least.

So, it's back to the war of the worlds again. Whatever. Spent some time at my cousin's who I'm moving in with in February. Got a nice PMA boost from her reminding me of all the things I ahve done for my kids and family and that she would have never thought in a milion years my M would turn out this way. She told me to just keep myself together and do teh best I can for the kids and let STBX bury herself in her own problems. If STBX doesnt' realize what she gave up, someone else someday will.