It's still coming down. We have 12 degrees and wind. Brrrrr! Between now and Christmas we are supposed to get another 5+. It's a very good thing that Santa has such a warm suit, lol.
Yesterday was fine. Pretty stressful because I am so far behind and H had to plow up until the last minute. But everything went well.
He and I did get an opportunity to talk about a few things. He knew that the emotions and the stress of the day was getting to me...and he really put forth an effort to be reassuring and at the same time remorseful that he had caused this pain. At one point I asked him to put himself into my shoes, and asked how he would feel? He said that it would be terribly painful, and he knew that he had done something very wrong.
After we left the family party he still had a couple of places to plow, so he asked if I'd like to ride along with him. I did, and we listened to Christmas music along the way. We didn't do any talking while he was plowing, because it is pretty fast and furious and he has to pay attention. It felt good though just being together, and I could tell that he enjoyed me being there.
A couple of other things that I have noticed. He has started to tell me that he loves me again, and he is also referring to me once again as his wife. If that is all that Santa brings me, it will be enough.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
