I critized him working soooo much..(I knew work was import, but I did feel 2nd) so I guess the way I came across made him feel that I didn't support him. He just can not move past that and see why I felt the way I did. But oh well. I can't force the issue anymore.
Kristi, while you may, very well, have done such criticizing; in the end, your H's excuse that this is the reason he's leaving is BS. Just an excuse sister. Don't believe that this is the main reason.
There's another reason somewhere..you just haven't found it yet.
Keep working on yourself..while he's in the fog, you can't work on your R anyway. So you need to be a better Kristi, OK?