So I saved a draft of a reply to him I am sitting on it for now. It says
We are not 'stuck together for now trying to make this work'--We are not STUCK together marriage is a choice. And there is no 'for now'--marriage is not a 'for now' kind of thing. I didn't read anything about how much you love me and want me i only read where your life would be harder without me. I want my love for you to be a prize not something you settle for bc it beats the alternative
