Sorry, but I'm going to lay most of it back on him. The scheming OW is going entirely by what the H has told her. You don't think he's manipulated and lied and set himself up as the poor victim? Can you imagine the bullsh!t he's fed his "other family." I think the OW is awful too, BTW...but good ole H has been playing both sides against the middle this entire time and the only person he really feels sorry for is himself. I sometimes think the name of this website should be Narcissism Unveiled instead of DB.
